Ms. D in Progress

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“I’m going to find her on Instagram and DM her!”

“The Forest of Hands and Teeth” – a young adult novel about a young girl who needs to escape her secluded village because the fences are broken down by zombies. She tries to escape, and in the mean time looses everything and everyone along the way and finds out that her dreams are not real. 

Inspired yet?

This is the third year that we have read this novel with our Grade 9 English class. It is a nice way to start off the year with a simple read full of amazing symbols and themes. It is relatable enough for the children to get attached, but is also full of fantasy so that they are intrigued by the unknown. Coming into this year, Graham and I were unsure if a third year would be a good idea. Has it already been done? Do the students know what to expect? Should we move on to something else?

We are able to do some great things with the students. Good discussions, our Zombie Day was the best one yet and their projects – or moon shoots – were well done for the most part. But how do we elevate this for the students and make it even more inpactful?

Our idea did not come from Graham or I. One day in class, near the end of the book, one of my students was really upset about the section of the book that she finished reading. “Why did he die? I am not reading this anymore! Everyone dies! What is Carrie Ryan’s problem?” Now these are answers that I can pretend to know or give my input on but the reality is, I have no idea. How can I know? I did not write the book and do not know what the author was thinking during the process.

So I told her, “Why don’t you ask her?”

She responded quickly with “I am going to find her on Instagram and DM her!”

Little did I know, that across the hall in Graham’s classroom, he was having similar reactions with his students. They want to know more. They were not satisfied with the ending of the novel and want to know why! Graham’s class took to Twitter to reach out to Carrie Ryan to find out why!

Somehow – we got a response. We had set up a Skype call with Carrie Ryan herself. We were about to get the answers we were looking for.

We just finished this call and I don’t know who is more inspired – me or the students. We worked together to come up with questions to ask her about her choices as a writer, or the writing process itself and she spent half an hour talking about everything. Characters became more clear, plot twists made sense and you looked at characters in such a different way. We found out that there is no other real meaning to the title – it was something that her husband chose! Students (and I) had no idea what exactly went into writing a book and hearing from a published author that it is okay to write things down that don’t work out in the end was a better teaching moment than I could ever provide. Her talking about how it is the process of writing without fear of judgement that is important was so powerful. Her saying that some of your best ideas come from the times were it seems impossible to write was inspiring.  How amazing is it that next year, if we do the book again, Graham and I are able to have new and more in depth conversations with our students because “we talked to Carrie Ryan herself”.

This just makes me stop and think that nothing is impossible. This all started off as a bit of a joke. Something that the kids undertook themselves. They wanted answers and didn’t think that it would work – but it did. I never would have thought to reach out to an author to get questions answered. I am sure she has much better things to do than speak with students in little Rothesay, New Brunswick. But, Carrie was so kind and excited to hear from a group of students who enjoyed her book so much. It almost seemed like she was just as excited to speak to us as we were to speak to her.

Opportunities like this are possible on so many levels and disciplines, sometimes, you just have to ask.

Who is Really the Teacher?

I had a moment yesterday. One of those moments that makes you stop and think. One of those moments where a student says something to you and you question who is really the teacher.

At RNS, I teach and houseparent, but I also coach the Varsity Girls Basketball team. This is my third year coaching them and I can honestly say that they are my relief. Not only do I love basketball, but I love this bunch of girls. They are from Grade 8 – 12 (we have a very tall and talented Grade 8 girl this year) and come from different friend groups. You rarely see them hang out outside of the gym, but they are so connected and content when they are together. There is no drama, no fighting and a lot of dancing and laughing. They have the best attitude and sense of humor that they can easily turn a bad day into a good one pretty quick.

Last night, I spent 20 minutes of practice with one particular player. She is in Grade 10, it is her second year on the team, and she is one of the most talented players I have seen in a long time. She is quiet and calm and can shoot three pointers better than anyone I know. She can probably out-shoot any student here at school. Over the past couple of weeks she has been struggling. Her shots have not been falling and I have seen her grow increasingly frustrated with herself. She will never say anything to you, but you can read it on her face. She went from having games where she scores over 30 points, to games with only 2 points.

I decided that at practice last night I would spend some time with just her and see if we can figure out what is going on. I had her shoot three point shots and taught her a couple of new moves to get open. At first, she was throwing up bricks and nothing was working. I began to wonder if having her do this would really benefit her or not. I did not want her to feel more discouraged than she already did. I stopped her, grabbed the ball and just talked to her. I asked her whats going on and to just relax. It seemed like she was losing the fun of the game which is never something I want to see. She expressed that she was feeling frustrated with me – the coach. Holy moment! After talking to her, she was commenting on how in games, we are good at recognizing certain players while leaving out some. We have a lot of new players to the team and have been working hard with them, so we celebrate big time when they do something new or make a shot they have been working on. She felt like she was not getting the same feedback from us.

The worst part about it is… she’s right!

There are a few players on the team that I can relate this to. We have three players that we do not have to worry about. They are leaders on the team. They know what they need to do and they just do it. They make great shots, they make amazing passes, their defence is unbelievable and they rack up the rebounds and steals like it’s their job all while maintaining a positive outlook on the court. They get pushed around by the other teams and never get frustrated. They pick their heads up and keep playing. And what I realized in speaking with her is that I have become complacent in expecting this of them and that is not okay! I had a really good chat with this player. She called me out completely and I appreciated it. I apologized and told her she was right and that it is not fair for her to feel any less praise than anyone else on the team. I want her to improve and develop just as much as any other player on the team. Once our chat was over, she was knocking down three’s just like she used to.

This made me think of not only my basketball team, but my house and classroom as well. I am quick to praise a student for growth and for doing something new, but sometimes I forget the students who are constantly putting in the effort and time to do things right. I am so focused on helping the lower half improve, that I forget about the high-flying kids.  I forget how important and powerful something like praise is. Just a simple “great job”, or “nice work” can go such a long way. I know how much I appreciate it when someone gives me a little bit of praise!

I have so many students that do not get the praise that they deserve and that is completely on me. I need to make sure that I am focused on all of my students or kids or athletes the same. I need to make sure that they are all developing and becoming more than they were when I first met them. It is so simple but sometimes we struggle to tell students how we feel. Being able to express to them why they are important or why they are doing a good job is so powerful. 

  • Why is praise for effort and/or work strategies useful?
    It directly affects students’ beliefs about why they succeed or fail.
  • It leads to increased persistence, self-evaluation, intrinsic motivation and resilience when students encounter obstacles and setbacks.
  • It leads to increased learning and higher achievement.
    Benefits for student performance
    Specifically, students whose teachers praise effort and work strategies rather than praising intelligence will:
  • Apply more, not less, effort when material is difficult for them.
  • Seek challenges.
  • Set higher goals for themselves.
  • Look at failures as opportunities to learn.
  • Increase their efforts rather than withdraw effort and attention.
  • Learn more.

http://www.apa.org/education/k12/using-praise.aspx

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