{"id":103,"date":"2026-10-03T14:16:50","date_gmt":"2026-10-03T18:16:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/rebeccaanderson\/?p=103"},"modified":"2026-10-03T14:16:50","modified_gmt":"2026-10-03T18:16:50","slug":"a-small-question-asked-consistently","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/rebeccaanderson\/2026\/10\/03\/a-small-question-asked-consistently\/","title":{"rendered":"A Small Question, Asked Consistently"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Reflecting on the Eisenhower Matrix has made me curious about the everyday choices that shape my time with students. I am not taking away a list of quadrant results or a dramatic change in my schedule. Instead, I am noticing something important: making space for one-on-one time with students matters. A brief moment of attention can support their wellbeing and help me better understand how they are feeling about school.<\/p>\n<p>The insight I want to carry forward is that connection does not always require a separate meeting or a complicated plan. It can begin with a simple question, asked consistently and with genuine interest. I considered using a color-coded system to make check-ins visible, but students often use the same pen color, so that approach did not seem practical. A verbal check-in feels more natural: while I am checking agendas at the end of the day, I can ask students how their day went and how they are feeling.<\/p>\n<p>I want this to be quick, simple, and automatic\u2014not another task that competes with the routine, but a small part of the routine I already have. That simplicity matters. If the question is easy to remember and easy to answer, I can make the check-in a dependable invitation rather than something I do only when I happen to think of it. Success, for me, will mean that students understand the routine and know that this is a regular moment to share how things are going.<\/p>\n<p>There may also be times when what a student shares is useful for other teachers in the classroom to know, particularly if the student has had a difficult day. I want to be thoughtful about that: any sharing of student wellbeing information should follow school guidance and respect the student\u2019s privacy. The purpose of the check-in is first to listen and understand, while handling anything shared with care.<\/p>\n<p>My commitment is clear: every time I am helping with agendas, I will also ask the check-in question. I want to keep practicing until it becomes part of how I end the day with students. This matters because understanding how students feel at school helps me see them as people, not only as names on an agenda. I cannot know in advance what each answer will be, and that is part of why I want to ask. One small, steady question can open the door to a clearer understanding\u2014and I am ready to make room for it.<\/p>\n<div data-tldraw=\"\">\n<div data-tldraw=\"\">\n<div data-tldraw=\"\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Reflecting on the Eisenhower Matrix has made me curious about the everyday choices that shape my time with students. I am not taking away a list of quadrant results or a dramatic change in my schedule. Instead, I am noticing something important: making space for one-on-one time with students matters. A brief moment of attention [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":531,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wds_primary_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-103","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/rebeccaanderson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/rebeccaanderson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/rebeccaanderson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/rebeccaanderson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/531"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/rebeccaanderson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=103"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/rebeccaanderson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":104,"href":"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/rebeccaanderson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103\/revisions\/104"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/rebeccaanderson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=103"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/rebeccaanderson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=103"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/rebeccaanderson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=103"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}