{"id":497,"date":"2020-11-21T17:38:04","date_gmt":"2020-11-21T17:38:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/?p=497"},"modified":"2020-11-21T19:35:53","modified_gmt":"2020-11-21T19:35:53","slug":"on-culture-fun-and-gratitude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/2020\/11\/21\/on-culture-fun-and-gratitude\/","title":{"rendered":"On Culture, Fun, and Gratitude"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reflecting on the Leadership Strand from today\u2019s Cohort 21 virtual face-to-face, I thought it would be worthwhile to share one resource and two takeaways that I have found to be particularly helpful in thinking about school culture.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h4>Culture Cues from a Flamingo<\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The resource I&#8217;d like to share comes from an unexpected place. This advice doesn\u2019t come from a school leader, or from the education world at all, but rather from a sunglasses company. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Founded<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> by three of my genius friends from way-back-when, Ben Abell, Stephen Lease and Keri Blunt, goodr makes athletic sunglasses that don\u2019t suck. But if you were to ask the founders what they sell, they would tell you that they don\u2019t sell sunglasses, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=h4C3kwAcrV0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">they sell fun<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. And they will follow that by saying that fun doesn\u2019t mean happy hours 5 days a week, and despite their <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=Qj-BsV4jfHE&amp;feature=emb_title\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cheeky sense of humour<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in their branding, they take fun very seriously.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_498\" style=\"width: 235px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-498\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-498\" src=\"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/IMG_20190427_221921_01-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/IMG_20190427_221921_01-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/IMG_20190427_221921_01-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/IMG_20190427_221921_01-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/IMG_20190427_221921_01-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/IMG_20190427_221921_01-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-498\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span style=\"color: #999999;\">I had the pleasure of participating in goodr&#8217;s quarterly team meeting last year, called goodrstock. Costumes are required, as are silly events like this scavenger hunt challenge that involved headbanging with a pedometer on my head.<\/span><\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I can tell you from being a guest at a few of their team events in Los Angeles, goodr has mastered the art of fun by creating a culture of work hard, play hard. Their team, which is now more than 60 people, is exceptionally positive, motivated, self directed, collaborative and highly productive.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recognizing their strength in this area of creating culture, this year Stephen and Sean Tinney (whose title is Chief Relationship Officer &#8211; imagine if every school had one of those?!) launched a podcast called <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/goodr.com\/blogs\/goodrtimes\/the-culture-goodr-podcast\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">CULTURE goodr.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The first season was all about how they pivoted during the start of the pandemic, but I found the second season to be the most interesting. Season two shares lessons from how they took a page from Bren\u00e9 Brown\u2019s book, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/daretolead.brenebrown.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dare to Lead<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, to create their company culture. Each episode breaks down a different topic into actionable strategies to help leaders intentionally design culture at their organization.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The podcast covers topics like \u201c<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/goodr.com\/blogs\/goodrtimes\/s02e02\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Taking Your Values from Bullshit to Behaviours<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d which explains how to execute on your mission and vision by creating \u201csupporting and slippery behaviours\u201d, which could easily be applied to a school setting. The episode \u201c<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/goodr.com\/blogs\/goodrtimes\/s02e03\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Clear Is Kind<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d could be applied to everything from how we explain things to students to how we communicate with parents.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One episode that I think would challenge educators the most would be the episode called \u201c<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/goodr.com\/blogs\/goodrtimes\/s02e09\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Chill Is The New Busy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">,\u201d in which he highlights a dominant challenge in work today, the \u201chustle for self worth,\u201d and how being \u201cbusy\u201d is worn like a badge of honor. To fight this, goodr has a company policy that employees should NOT work more than 40 hours a week.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This might seem impossible for schools to accomplish, as we all know there are never enough hours in a day, but what a great challenge to strive towards? There are simple <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">supporting behaviours<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that we could establish in our schools to work towards this goal, such as setting a policy that teachers should not check email after 5pm or on weekends (and as leaders, don\u2019t send emails during this time either! Use the schedule send feature in Gmail to send it the following morning).<\/span><b>\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>What supporting behaviours could you implement in your school to create a culture of chill?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/goodr.com\/blogs\/goodrtimes\/the-culture-goodr-podcast\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Take a listen<\/a>, and let me know what you think. Stephen would be thrilled to know that his voice is resonating with the education community, and I\u2019d be interested to know what schools can take away from a company whose quarterly events involve things like running a \u201c<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=KD0e73CLb3M\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whiskey Mile<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d, who name their sunglass colours things like \u201c<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Freshly Baked Man Buns<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d and who profess that their CEO is actually a stuffed flamingo named Carl. Couldn\u2019t we all use a little more fun in our culture these days? That brings me to my first take away from today. <\/span><\/p>\n<h4>Two Takeaways<\/h4>\n<p><b>1. We All Need a Little More Fun in Our Lives<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It was interesting to hear in the leadership conversation that many schools implemented things like weekly virtual socials or coffee hours during the lockdown in the spring. However, we expected that this staff socializing would return to normal when in-person learning started again in September, and most of these initiatives fell by the wayside. It seems staff culture has taken a hit because of it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_499\" style=\"width: 235px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-499\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-499\" src=\"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/IMG_20190426_164142-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/IMG_20190426_164142-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/IMG_20190426_164142-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/IMG_20190426_164142-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/IMG_20190426_164142-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/IMG_20190426_164142-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-499\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span style=\"color: #999999;\">What if your staff meeting could channel fun like this?<\/span><\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Although teachers might be back in the building for face-to-face instruction, safety restrictions have prevented those random collisions that happen in the halls, the sharing of personal stories and life events that happen in the staff room, and the general sense of community and connection among staff. What if we could bring that back with a really simple intervention? Something as simple as a weekly virtual staff social hour might go a long way to bring some positive connection and interaction to the day.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At Future Design School, we started a weekly Google Meet called \u201cQuarantinis\u201d (we really should trademark that term, right?). Every Thursday afternoon, we get together for a social, to spend a few minutes sharing the highlights from the week, celebrating each other\u2019s success, and unpacking the learning from the week, followed by a fun social time. Sometimes we play games, sometimes my amazing colleague <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/qhenderson\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Quin<\/a> wows us all with his magic tricks, and sometimes we just have a drink and catch up.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Our friends at goodr also have some <a href=\"https:\/\/goodr.com\/blogs\/goodrtimes\/how-to-build-company-culture-while-working-remotely\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">good advice on this topic<\/a>: their company was remote long before the pandemic, and even though goodrstock can&#8217;t happen in person these days, they are keeping the fun alive. The Cohort is already taking cues from this list &#8211; virtual fitness challenges (join our C21 moves Strava group <a href=\"https:\/\/www.strava.com\/clubs\/cohort21_moves\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here<\/a>).<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_510\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-510\" class=\"wp-image-510 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/C21-PUB-NIGHT-2-300x169.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/C21-PUB-NIGHT-2-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/C21-PUB-NIGHT-2-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/C21-PUB-NIGHT-2.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-510\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Click the &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/presentation\/d\/1t4p_g2KXr46azigrkaHE-BlyM8GlmCdiTiRat4NTBjw\/template\/preview\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Use Template<\/a>&#8221; button on the upper right to make your own copy.<\/p><\/div>\n<p><b>Has your school been hosting social hours for staff? How are you creating connection and community amongst staff? <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lisa (<span class=\"atwho-inserted\" contenteditable=\"false\" data-atwho-at-query=\"@lisa\"><a class='bp-suggestions-mention' href='https:\/\/cohort21.com\/members\/lmitchell\/' rel='nofollow'>@lmitchell<\/a><\/span>) from HTS shared that teachers have been raffling off little prizes and gifts at staff meetings, or providing a little extra coverage for teachers.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Bonus<\/strong><\/span>: if you want to run a virtual pub night, like we did last night for Cohort, <a href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/presentation\/d\/1t4p_g2KXr46azigrkaHE-BlyM8GlmCdiTiRat4NTBjw\/template\/preview\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">click here to grab the slide deck template<\/a> that you can use for the &#8220;rooms&#8221; in your virtual pub! (All rooms are set up as master slides. To edit, click Slide &gt; Edit Master and you can change the C21 logo to your own logo, etc.)<\/p>\n<p><b>2. Giving Thanks Changes Your Brain<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another small thing that I think we can do to improve our mindsets in challenging times is offer gratitude. Back when I was training for my first triathlon in 2007, I had an exceptional coach, Scott Willet. One of the best pieces of advice that he gave me was \u201cWhen you feel like you\u2019ve hit the wall, that you\u2019re ready to quit, start giving gratitude. Thank a volunteer on the course, cheer back at the fans that are cheering you on, say hello to another runner and tell them they look great.\u201d If you\u2019re a runner, try this (when races come back) &#8212; it works!\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-500 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/0c70db12-3532-4f21-954c-415c1f1f5a6f-c12d5839-5d11-4fb7-9825-dcbbf551116b-v1-298x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"298\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/0c70db12-3532-4f21-954c-415c1f1f5a6f-c12d5839-5d11-4fb7-9825-dcbbf551116b-v1-298x300.png 298w, https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/0c70db12-3532-4f21-954c-415c1f1f5a6f-c12d5839-5d11-4fb7-9825-dcbbf551116b-v1-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/cohort21.com\/lesliemcbeth\/files\/2020\/11\/0c70db12-3532-4f21-954c-415c1f1f5a6f-c12d5839-5d11-4fb7-9825-dcbbf551116b-v1.png 396w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 298px) 100vw, 298px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.health.harvard.edu\/healthbeat\/giving-thanks-can-make-you-happier\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Harvard Medical School<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, giving gratitude can actually change the neurological activity in your brain to make you feel more positive:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cGratitude is strongly and consistently associated with greater happiness. Gratitude helps people feel more positive emotions, relish good experiences, improve their health, deal with adversity, and build strong relationships.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Neuroscientific research in the field of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/positivepsychology.com\/neuroscience-of-gratitude\/#:~:text=Gratitude%20And%20Neurotransmitters&amp;text=When%20we%20express%20gratitude%20and,feel%20happy%20from%20the%20inside.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">positive psychology<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> has shown that:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWhen we express gratitude and receive the same, our brain releases dopamine and serotonin, the two crucial neurotransmitters responsible for our emotions, and they make us feel \u2018good\u2019. They enhance our mood immediately, making us feel happy from the inside\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 1.4rem;\">Being grateful changes the chemical makeup of our brain.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Something that Garth (<span class=\"atwho-inserted\" contenteditable=\"false\" data-atwho-at-query=\"@garth\"><a class='bp-suggestions-mention' href='https:\/\/cohort21.com\/members\/gnichols\/' rel='nofollow'>@gnichols<\/a><\/span>) used to do when we worked together at Greenwood was to leave notes on my desk just to say thanks or celebrate something good that happened that week. This later became the Cohort 21 High Five &#8212; something to look forward to in face-to-face events to come!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>How might we create a culture of gratitude in our schools? Could we do simple things like leaving a note in someone\u2019s mailbox to say thanks, or sending someone public gratitude on Twitter<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Reflecting on the Leadership Strand from today\u2019s Cohort 21 virtual face-to-face, I thought it would be worthwhile to share one resource and two takeaways that I have found to be particularly helpful in thinking about school culture.\u00a0 Culture Cues from a Flamingo The resource I&#8217;d like to share comes from an unexpected place. 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